If I keep writing about Justin's naughtiness, everyone is going to think he's a bratty, disobedient child. He's really not. He's spirited. And clever. And full of energy. And going thru an "I can do it all and am in charge of my own life" phase. Sadly that often that gets him into trouble but only because I'm trying to mold him into a well mannered man of God. So don't get the wrong idea about him. He's a good kid.
But last night we had plans to go out to dinner with Grandma and a friend. Between 5:00 and 6:00 (the "witching hour" in our household) there was such a series of disobeying that I decided he couldn't go out to dinner. And because I couldn't go to dinner since I would have to stay home with him, he needed to stay in his room while everyone else was at the restaurant. (Note: He did get to come out for dinner at home and it was less than an hour total) During a calm moment, I wanted to make sure that he clearly understood why he was having the consequence so I went thru the list of the things he had done that were disobedient. Over dinner he was expressing disappointment over having missed Marie Callender's corn bread, so thinking this was a teachable moment I said, "And what are you going to do next time so that you will be able to go?"
"Next time I'm only going to disobey ONCE!"
I think somehow I failed to communicate clearly.
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3 comments:
Well, at least he's cutting back! :) I love that you share these stories-I'm sure he's a great kid, but these are the fun stories that you'll look back on when he turns out GREAT.
he's brilliant...and honest. much better than trying to secretly hide it all. it was so great to see him (and you).
cutting back is a start! i love that you know he's a good kid, in spite of his little rebellious spells. if he were perfect, what would you have to teach you patience and endurance?
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